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Living With An Acquired Brain Injury

'Sorry, could you not ask me two questions at the same time?' my friend Dorothy implores, looking frustrated. She hasn't had an easy time of it, but despite that, she is not one to wallow or complain or put up with people asking her two…

Choosing Therapy

“Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.” Shannon L. Alder You've heard of Psychotherapy. And you've heard of Counselling.…

Managing Unhelpful Thoughts

'Why, then, 'tis none to you, for there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so' - William Shakespeare, Hamlet. Unhelpful, intrusive thoughts are debilitating and none of us is spared. My favourite one to say sadly…

Biases In Our Brains | Friend Or Foe?

The best thing I learnt while I was studying Psychology was about all of our  cognitive biases. There are loads of them. These 'mental shortcuts' operate mainly unconsciously, and, although the word 'bias' pings with negative connotations,…

Anger is your friend

“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change”             - Carl Rogers. A few years ago I got a phone call from a friend who had seen irrefutable evidence that my boyfriend at the time was…